If you've been following along, you've figured out what you want, you know the
general principles of what women want, you've decided the best locale for where to meet
the right woman. But you may be a bit unsure of what to do next.
First let's dispell a myth. There is NO formula, no guaranteed
pickup line that you can use that will have women eating out of your hand. If you see
a web site or book that advertises such a thing, forget it. They just want your money.
The reason why there is no formula is because every woman is different. She is an
individual. Remember that. And, you are unique, too. Consequently, every
encounter between a man and a woman is unique. No one formula or line can possibly be
right for every situation.
Begin by observing. If you see a woman who interests you, take a
few moments to see what she is doing. If you are in a group, is she chatting away, or sitting
off by herself? If you are at a bar, is she drinking an unusual drink? Watching the game on TV?
Choose something about her situation to talk to her about. We'll see
specific examples under the approach. Even better, identify two
or three things about her situation that you can ask or talk about.
Important! Don't comment on her physical appearance right away. Even if you think she's got
the most beautiful eyes, saying so too soon sounds like a line. A line is something that a guy
trots out for every woman he meets. It's impersonal and fake.
If you get the brush off (which you might), you may want to continue observing. (Don't stare, or she'll
think you're some kind of weird stalker.) What sort of man does she respond to? Is he different from
you? Are you trying to be somebody that you're not? Are you going after the wrong kind of woman
for you? If you repeatedly get the brush off, then you probably are not going after the right kind
of woman. Re-evaluate yourself and what you want.
Now, take a deep breath, and get ready for the